In my opinion , failure is just a means by which we have to start over as a beautiful Chinese proverb says : "If one thing you do not succeed at first , try until you succeed " .
First, if you make the fallen moral defeat , then, if you try to cheer , you become depressed and you will not have a chance to get up again and the only way you'll be a bad example among those who did not tried , and it has been the greatest failure.
Second , if after a failure, try to get up and the effort really get it , then surely you will be a positive example among those who did not take the defeat as the biggest failure but were thought the loss of opportunity to try lifting is really a failure , so trying , rose and managed to wash reputation .
In conclusion, if after defeat, not look the way that can help you rise through effort, then you will be depressed for a long time , but if you succeed as the many attempts to get up and be a winner instead of beat , then will replace failure with success .